Sometimes, It’s okay Make it All about Yourself.
Everyone of us has our own struggles in life.
Saying things like:
‘I have more struggles than you’
or
‘Your life is better than mine’
They simply doesn’t make sense. Because, I’m not the one living your life.
There’s this saying I really like:
Before you Judge them, walk a mile in Their shoes!
Right.
These days…
People are always with their heads into social media, constantly judging people they’ve never even seen before…
I mean, does that make any sense?
That’s why I said,
Sometimes, it’s okay to Make it All about Yourself.
Especially, those of you who had been caring for those around you while ignoring yourself.
Now, I’m not saying not to care for those around you.
If you have a kind nature and you are naturally caring towards your loved ones and always loves to make them a priority…
That’s not wrong at all.
Because,
That’s who you are.
Being yourself is always the right choice.
But, are you sure you’ve never had that mindset of wanting let go of everything and having a You-Time atleast once in your life?
Let’s be honest.
We all have had such moments in life.
Being Empathetic with your loved ones is no crime at all.
Just like when they said in a movie I watched:
Love is Not a Crime!
However…
During those times,
- When you feel Tired
- When you feel unwell
- When you feel Down
Just stop & take that moment for yourself.
When people ask for your attention, help during those times,
Don’t hesitate to refuse.
Don’t think that they might feel hurt or disappointed.
Because,
If you agree to those requests at that time,
You’d be the one to feel Hurt and Disappointed.
In a Life that’s flowing like a River without a break, Once in a while, Take a moment, Make yourself the spotlight, Enjoy your Life.
Hope y’all are Enjoying your Life.
-Cayal-
